It’s Vanadium. It comes with GrapheneOS
I’m not in the US but I met my wife online, as did a few of my friends. The overall process of finding someone compatible took years though and it wasn’t very much fun. It’s probably worse now that dating apps are actively invested in keeping you single and swiping.
This is the right question - people who have never owned an EV vastly overestimate the range they’ll need, almost always.